{I’m much, much better today. The worst has passed, just like Reed promised it would.}
Many, many times I have wished M would be more active in planning date nights. Many times. I can only tell him so much about these hopes without feeling like I’m nagging. And then, who wants to get a date night planned for them because they finally wore the other person down enough to do it?
So damnit, I think I will give him an example of what an amazing date night can be. Then he’ll have a reference point. I’ll let you all know what happens…
If I remember correctly, M did an amazing date for you recently.
I also see some badness going on here that we should talk about.
I have had no amazing dates recently that were planned for me.
And: badness? All I see here is me asserting myself in a good way.
My bad. Neither a date, nor recent, but certainly not to be forgotten.
http://10yearsin.wordpress.com/2011/07/28/fulfilled/
Yes. I haven’t forgotten. But I’m talking a real date. Not a specific sex fantasy.
Trust me, you’re not alone, my bf is also the worst at going out and doing something fun. If it were up to him we wouldn’t leave the house much and he’ll be spending more time with the computer. That’s why I just started to drag him with me
For us it’s mainly communication breakdown. I’m utterly frustrated.
Hmmm maybe writing notes or letters could help and make sure he reads it. Writing is often better then talking (comes from a girl that texts and chats online a lot with her bf instead of real talking)
He just wouldn’t take that very seriously.
Yeah, you probably have to show him. Otherwise, how’s he supposed to know what you like?
Agreed. As in every area of life, we teach people how to treat us.
exactly.